New things that didn't used to worry you are now taking over your life. Some of these things may include experiences like dating, driving, and deciding on which direction to take your life after high school. All of this can be challenging for some teens as their bodies and minds are changing along with the increase in responsibility. Don't get caught up in all of this though, there are some things you can do to help get through this melee.
I gathered my information from http://www.teenhelp.com/teen-issues/surviving-high-school.html. It's a good place to read about problems you may be going through as an emerging adult and ways to help resolve them.
Below is a list of resolutions to help your teen years bearable.
- Make goals for yourself. It helps to write them down in pen to set in stone.
- Your grades are important from the beginning, freshman year. Try to balance out how you use your free time and doing homework. If your grades aren't what you want them to be, talk to a teacher to help set goals to improve them.
- Begin exploring options for your future. Think about what interests you and how you would like to spend your time as an adult.
- Planning for college or a type of technical school is a could idea to get you on your way. Talk to a school guidance counselor or a close parent figure to figure out what classes you should be taking and what classes you still need.
- -Don't forget to make time for fun! Find ways to let yourself relax and let go of the weight of school work for awhile. Maybe hang out with friends or enjoy a hobby on the weekends.
Here are some tips to help that social and emotional challenge of your teenage life.
- Don't hang around people who always bring you down. Find some friends that encourage you to do your best and always support you in your decisions.
- Don't get into things like gangs and fights. This may cause you to be expelled from school. They are also dangerous experiences to dabble in.
- Sleep should always be made time for. Teenager need more time to sleep than adults and even children.
- Since your body is still developing, keep aways from junk food. Make up a list of a healthy diet so you can stick to it.
- Don't get addicted to electronics. Limit your time usage of TV and Internet. Use some quiet time to relax and unwind.
- Don't succumb to peer pressure. People who try to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do are not good friends. Teens like that don't really care about you or what you want. Make sure to find friends who treat you with respect.
If you're into dating, don't begin a relationship with someone who threatens you or anyone else. That is a sign that the person is abusive and that leaves you with a higher risk of danger. If you already are in a relationship where you feel scared or vulnerable, talk to a trusted friend or adult for advice and help.
- If you feel depressed, angry, suicidal, or think you may have an eating disorder, talk with an adult who will listen and help you get treatment right away so you can feel better.
The years of your teenage hood is a critical time to develop good health habits. Generally, teens believe that nothing bad will ever happen to them but it you don't nip problems and bad habits in the bud, then they can get out of control as you age into adulthood.
- Remember to always drive carefully. Car accidents are the number one killer of teenagers. Never drive under the influence of drugs/alcohol or get into a vehicle with someone who is.
- Don't smoke or use drugs or alcohol; they will ruin your body and mind. They will also increase the risk of danger to your health. While under the influence, you have a better chance of doing something risky and hurting others or yourself, too.
Get enough sleep every night; teens need more sleep than an adult or even children.
- Eat a healthy diet and try to limit your intake of fat, sugar, soda, and junk food. This will provoke better health habits now and throughout the rest of your life.
Limit the amount of time you spend on the computer, watching TV, and playing video games. Use some of your free time to exercise, do homework, read, or pursue a hobby that you're interested in.
- If you need to work during high school, be safe and don't let your job come before school and homework.
~Cali
